Today’s cheesy topic is nothingness. If you stare at something for a few seconds, too long, the seconds that follow have you completely lost into nothingness; what if those seconds were spent staring into someone’s eyes?  Then that nothingness gets a meaning that is so absolutely mystical; that slight sprinkling of mysticism is what makes love all the more ridiculously sweet. So, doing nothing is often doing something that really matters. Well am sure it means nothing to you now but soon it will, once we take a look at today’s question.

Disha Singh: Hi, my problem is kind of common but the solution has always been uncommon to me. My bf loves coffee but I cannot make it for peanuts. His birthday is coming in a month and I want to prepare all the things that he likes, and that does include coffee. And I will not order it from outside; I want to do it on my own.

UC: Truly Disha, you’ve got to do nothing. Let me explain. Probably; you can try this, on your loved, to see how good your skills, in nothingness, are. Seriously, all these tricks don’t happen with practice, but with a whole lot of love. Froth up a cup of coffee and purposely forget to put in the sugar, serve it to your loved one, and then indulge him in a conversation about sweet honeyed nothings. A little into the conversation, he will stretch out to take a sip of your coffee. If the reaction is yikesssssssssss! Then the conversation was not indulgent. If the reaction is a frown, followed by a pleasant smile that takes the both of you right back into the conversation; then, he really loves for who you are.

P.S.: Don’t forget, your coffee may be bitter, but your love is always sweet.

Love,

UC.

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