Let’s cut to the chase. Men do not understand how women think. More often than not, this difference in the way men and women think leads to a whole lot of annoyance, fights and eventually, a break-up.
What if we told you that there is a secret ‘behaviour’ list that is now out in the open? Yes! The one that tells men exactly what to do thus making life simple for everyone!
Here are 7 Things Women Want Their Men To Do:
1. Be Around!
‘I’m confident as a woman and of who I have become. But every now and then, I could do with some company’. Reassure her of the fact that you will be around even when she doesn’t explicitly say so.
2. Drop the act, drop the lies
Wipe that grin off your face. Honesty continues to be the best policy especially if you are thinking long term. You may face some fire initially but being honest will win her trust. That’s important if your relationship has to survive even a few moons.
3. You Don’t Need Me!
Please stop feeling ‘left out’ if a lady wants to do something alone or with her BFFs. Also remember that she is not a puppy with a GPS tracker on. So stop checking in on how she is doing every 20 minutes. Get another hobby!
4. Pass By Tantrum Central
‘I’d love for you to get in touch with your feminine side and do a bit of cosmic yoga with me but leave the tantrums to me’. Lose the habit of wanting to correct every single faux-pas because you need to feel important. Quick fact - Women aren’t placed on earth specifically to please you.
5. Show Some Respect
‘Be rude and arrogant and I’ll drop you like a hot potato!’ Accept me for who I am. Don’t get us wrong here. We like confident men. It’s just the over-bearing manipulative ones that can make us throw a fit. That’s all.
6. Try To Use That Underutilized ‘Gut Feeling’
At times, we speak without saying a word. A gentle upturned lip is the not the same as our hands on our hips! And yes, the word ‘fine’ can mean you are in trouble. We aren’t all the same, take your time and find your groove. It almost always pays off.
7. Surprise me!
Women love surprises. Remember how you would go that extra mile to woo me when we were just friends? Every now and then, I’d like to be reminded of how special I am to you.
There you have it. Seven simple tips to be the man women want you to be. Got more to share? Tell us!